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Showing posts with label TFMtips. Show all posts

Monday, March 16, 2015

Four Important Financial Advices for New and Not So New Parents

     Yesterday, as the kids and I went to an indoor mini golf activity, I just realized that very soon my oldest will be in high school. After that, every two years to be exact, I'll have a freshman. In just a blink of an eye, the kids will be in college!  

     Where did time go? I know that it flies fast but not at this rate. Anyway, this got me thinking.  Am I ready for it? College, weddings, empty nesting?  

     Whether you are expecting your first child or taking care of your fifth, I would like to share with you these four important things which most parents tend to put aside until the very end. 
        
     As most of us have heard or experienced, having a child can be a very expensive thing. Therefore, it is important for families to carefully plan out all of their expenses. When a child is involved, there are often many unexpected expenses that come into play as well. Needless to say, you need to be wise when it comes to money when you are raising a family in this very difficult financial times.  Here are some useful money saving advice for new and not so new families.  
  
Photo courtesy of Magickal Goodies 
1. Start planning for college immediately 

It is never too early to start planning for college. The cost of college tuition continues to go up every year. If you wait until your child is in high school to start saving for college, it will be far too late. However, if you do get a late start and you need some extra cash to finance your child's college education, visit one of the many New York private banking locations to find out about the various loans they offer. There is certain to be one that suits your needs. 

    
     This is one of my priorities. When my kids were younger (babies), I would put all their monetary gifts in an educational plan I got for them. I also remembered asking their godparents not to buy them those cute yet really pricey clothes and toys. Yes, they could buy them presents but I let them know how helpful a $10 deposit to their educational fund is. Those who were still paying their college loans readily understood.  I mean, if a child is under 3 years old, she wouldn't know the difference of a $50 Barbie doll from a $10 one. Right?

2. New expenses

Before you have a child, it is important that you understand the financial burden that will be coming your way when the little one finally arrives. Items such as wipes, diapers, clothing, food, formula, babysitters, day care and visits to the doctor will all need to be figured into your budget. Being able to afford these essential things for your new child may require you to give up some other things. For example, the cable TV and your gym membership may need to be cancelled.


        This is something I learned later on. The older a child gets, the more expensive he or she gets.  A baby wouldn't care if his or her shirt is from an expensive boutique or from a discount bin.  As my children got bigger, I've noticed that they now have a say on their clothes, shoes, activities and more.  Most of the time, if they are not paying for it, their choices tend to be on the higher side.  

3. Life insurance and wills

Now that you have a family, it is important that you do what is necessary to safeguard their future if something should happen to you. This is especially important if you are the primary breadwinner in your family. If you are relied upon for financial support, having an updated will and life insurance policy is critical. If you should pass away suddenly without either of these things in place, your family could be left destitute. 


      This is something most don't like to talk about.  However, it is really crucial.  I'm the primary caregiver of my children. However, I can't even imagine what will happen to my them in case I passed soon.  My children with food allergies for instance, can't cook their food yet.  Who will care for them in the even both my husband and I are gone?  How will they care of these kids with special needs? 


4. Go to a financial planner

New families often find it useful to go to a financial planner after their new baby is born. A financial planer can take a look at the parents finances and construct a budget for them to follow so they can prevent going broke. This is definitely worthwhile if neither parent is good at managing their money.


      I think this advice is not only applicable when a new baby is born.  In fact, I think we (that includes me) should go for consultations more often. With our busy daily routine and never ending life changes, a new set of eyes and ideas can definitely be beneficial.  A financial adviser can help us stay on track of our goals and even make new ones.
   
      Do you have some common or unique financial tips to share?  I love to hear from you.  Please write them down at the common section below.  

        Have a great week!

- Roz

(Note: This is a sponsored post which meant that I have compensation for writing this article and posting a link.  Please see my full disclosure here. )


Tuesday, July 1, 2014

52 Weeks of Simple Changes for a Healthier You Series

    I can't believe it's July already!  The first half of 2014 went really fast for me.  How about yours?  Were you able to keep your New Year resolutions?  I confess I wasn't.  But hey, we could always start again.    

    Since we're on the topic of starting. Last month,  I received the results of my annual physical exam.  I confess it has been two years since I had one. To my delight, all my numbers including cholesterol, glucose, sodium and iron came out normal. For someone who has thalassemia since birth, the later was one exciting news.  I can't help but smile when my doctor said "I don't know what you are doing how you got this results.  All I can say is Keep it up." 

    A few days later, my husband's results came out.  To our surprise, his results were a total disappointment!  Aside from his shell fish allergy which we've known for ages, it turned out that he is also allergic to egg, dairy, rice, oats, wheat, barley, rice, corn, soybean and several types of fish including tuna and salmon.  On top of the new allergens we have to deal with, his cholesterol level is through the roof.

    Our friends who are in the medical field were boggled why his doctor haven't prescribed him some medications yet.  According to our primary care doctor, he's giving my husband 3 months to lower his cholesterol the natural way.  This meant being active, exercising more often and most of all diet change.  If my husband's numbers haven't changed or God forbid increased, the doctor will have no choice but to put him on maintenance medication which has adverse side effects on other organs.

     When I first learned about my husband's results, I can't help but ask "How can it be?".  For more than 3 years now,  I've been on top of our family's food and nutrition.  Since the kids were on a limited diet, I've been extra keen to make sure that the food I prepare is not only tasty but most of all nutritious.  So far, all the children and I don't have any issues with our current medical tests.
     
     What's the difference then?  We all eat almost the same meals everyday.  As I look back and reflect on what other things I could do to help his health, it hit me.  My kids and I have habits which my husband doesn't have.  It may seem too simple or insignificant at first but I believe it is the small things that made the huge difference.



      As I help my husband acquire these new habits, I decided that it is also the best time to answer most of the questions I receive from readers and friends about healthy living.  For the next 52 weeks, I'll be sharing the small changes the kids and I made for the past 3 years which resulted to:
   
        * less nutrient deficiencies (even on a limited diet)
        * good numbers on cholesterol, sodium, blood pressure, iron
        * steady weight loss of me and weight gain for Child #3
        * lesser asthma attacks and medications
        * clearer skin and lesser eczema outbreaks
        * fewer sick days
         and more.
      
      Because a journey is always better and more fun with friends, I would like to invite you to join us in this 52 week (Yes, it's a full year) Challenge.  Every Saturday, you will receive a newsletter from me that's filled with budget friendly tips and a recipe or two that will help you and your home become healthier each week.   I promise, each step will be simple and yes, I will never fill your mailbox.
        
       So what are you waiting for? Are you in for the Challenge? Subscribe below and let's all start getting healthier.

- Roz


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Disclaimer:
      I am not a medical professional.  All the tips that I will write in this series are based on our family's experiences and with the full consent of our doctors.  My intention is to give ideas and not to diagnose or treat any medical conditions.  Always consult with your doctor.

Friday, June 27, 2014

Friday Freebies: Craft Ideas Ebooks

    Summer is in full swing!

    I'm sure most of you can relate how it feels like to have a child (or more) at home.   Are they complaining of boredom already? Is your electric bill going crazy because of long hours spent on the computer or TV?  Ah, the joys of no school.  

    If you are still looking for budget friendly ideas to do with the kids, check out what I have found for you today.  These ebooks are filled with numerous crafts from beginners to seasoned DIYers. The best part is that they are free to download now.  

   Grab one or all of them.  I bet these will keep even the biggest complainers busy.  As an added bonus, you might have enough as gifts for the coming holiday season.  

     Happy Crafting!  

- Roz  


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